Today’s Post By: Rae Lynn DeAngelis
“When evening came, Jesus was reclining at the table with the Twelve. And while they were eating, he said, ‘I tell you the truth, one of you will betray me.’” (Matthew 26:20-21)
Our friends, no matter how close, will at times disappoint or even fail us. If the Son of God experienced this reality, you can rest assured—so will we.
“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin.” (Hebrews 4:15)
Jesus had the foreknowledge of His betrayer, and yet he still allowed Judas to dip into the same bowl as himself. Our minds have a difficult time comprehending such forgiveness.
Perhaps you can relate to the sudden heartache prompted by a friend’s betrayal. Judas was someone who Jesus had allowed to get very close. The disciples were Jesus’ constant companions. He knew them, and they knew Him.
Unfortunately, betrayal almost always involves a close relationship. In fact, I’m not sure it would even classify as betrayal if it didn’t involve a close association.
Like many of you, I can relate to the sting of betrayal. Thankfully, I didn’t linger in that wounded frame of mind for long. God quickly picked me up, dusted me off, and began the process of healing. He revealed, through the truth of His Word, that I needed to forgive my betrayer and move on. The complete healing of my heart hinged upon forgiveness. Knowing this, I spent the next several days saturating myself in God’s Word and prayer. I was very hurt and knew it was not within me to forgive—I needed God’s help.
“The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:17-18)
In time, the former sting of betrayal hurt less and less. Eventually, it was gone completely. Ironically, the experience somehow brought us closer together.
When we place things into God’s hands, what Satan seeks to destroy, God uses as an opportunity for spiritual growth and maturity.
“Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.” (James 1:12)
We all make mistakes, and any time we allow someone to get close, we risk getting hurt. But if we want to be forgiven for our own grievances, we must be ready to forgive others when they hurt us.
“Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?’ Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.’” (Matthew 18:21-22)
“Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” (Luke 6:37)
